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A History Of Abusive Relationships

When one meets someone they like, they might not look into what their past relationships were like. In this case, the only thing they could be concerned about is what the other person is like around them.

Point of Focus

This could also be a time when one will spend a lot of time thinking about what they are like as a person, and this could be someone who ticks all the right boxes, so to speak. Based on the experiences they have had with them, one could believe that this is someone who is perfect for them.

What this might then mean is that the other person has the right appearance, and this could be something that is having a big effect on how they feel about them. If one was to talk to their friends or family about what is going on for them, they might all say the same thing.

One Response

These people could say that they are happy that one has found someone who is right for them, and that could be as far as it goes. During this time, one could talk about the good moments that they have shared together.

It could be said that it will be normal for them to behave in this way, and this is because they only want what’s best for them. If they were to ask one if the person they are with is actually right for them, it could have a negative effect on them.


One might start to wonder if their friends and family support them, if they asked them a question like this. It could be as if these people don’t want them to be happy, or that they are trying to stop them from having a relationship.

However, while it can seem as though this is something that is black and white, there is going to be more to it. As even if one of their friends was to ask them if they are with the right person, it doesn’t mean that they don’t have their best interests at heart.

Out of Action

What this comes down to is that when one likes another person, it can stop them from being able to pay attention to what they are really like. It is then not that they are trying to have a negative effect; it is that they are asking the kind of questions that one is unable to ask themselves.

One’s thinking brain can end up being offline, and this is then why they will be caught up with how they feel. And, through being caught up in how they feel, it might not be possible for them to see what the other person is like.

A Clear Head

Therefore, the people around them can end up playing a very important role and, if one was to ignore them, it could soon come back to haunt them. But if these people don’t ask them about what the other is like and encourage one to use their brain, it could be said that they would be doing them a disservice.

As if these people were to do this and it caused one to take a step back from how they feel, it might save them a lot of problems in the long run. So, even if they were to feel uncomfortable about doing this, they might end up thanking them soon after.

Plans That Extra Special

Well, valentine’s is just around the corner. It is that part of the year in which everyone in this universe is dancing to the tunes of togetherness. Only love is one such feeling that heals everything. During valentine’s; new relationships are made, anguishes leave some relationships, casual bonds turn into a lifetime affairs, compassion takes over insecurities and eyes communicate the love for each other without any words.

Every person in love, tries to make this day special for the other partner in his or her unique way; making reservations for the dinner, buying priceless gifts, sharing love through hourly presents and much more. While, arranging various things for your partner, try making them extra special by adding perfection to every part of this day.

Various tips are listed below which can make your this year’s valentine’s day totally awesome if you are celebrating it in the New York City:

Fancy Dinners:

Casual dinners sound too boring for a special day. Always keep in mind that your partner is one most special person who deserves to be treated like an exception. Planning for a dinner for such a day sounds not as good as an option. However, just by changing the style of your dinner can make wonders. Learn how:

Always make sure prior reservations are made to avoid last minute hassles.

Surprise your partner by giving hints for your evening plans through messages, notes, flowers etc.

Always buy a gift for your partner.

Opt for Chauffeured Services New York for travel and ascot your partner with a smile to and from the car.

Don’t go for crowded restaurants’.

Make arrangements for the two of you at a place where you both can be yourself without worrying about the world.

Cherish your old memories and create new together.

Plan a Trip:

Getting away from the world for a few days to a place where no one can hinder your ‘love bond’ is a great idea for this day. NY Premier Limousine Service let you have the best time together if you are planning for a stress free and a lovely road trip. For other vocational getaways, follow these tips:

Pick a place from the bucket list of your partner where he or she wants to travel next.

Book your hotels, flights silently without giving a hint to your partner.

Inform her only a week before so that her or his face lights up every time he or she thinks about it.

Cooperate with moods, feelings and emotions of your partner while settling things at the workplace before leaving for vacation.

Put the wish list of your partner in order and help her or him fulfill most of the things while you are away together.

Listening is important

My eyes fell slowly on his cock, and I was instantaneously struck by sensations in my body. One sensation was a beautiful energy expanding across my pelvis and a quickening of my breath. The other reaction was a flash of fear—yes, fear. This particular lover was a larger man, and we had not ever had sex before. It was a little daunting to be faced with the possibility that my body would struggle to accommodate him and that he wouldn’t be able to read my body and, therefore, plow ahead too quickly. I was very lucky that this new lover was excellent at reading my body, from my breath to my hip movement, the level of lubrication, and the little moans coming from my lips. He made sure my body was thoroughly ready for him to enter me, and he began very slowly until my body gave him sure signs that we were comfortably joined together before beginning a deeper thrusting. We had a full session of sexing that was divine, and I was quickly whisked away into a state of overwhelming pleasure.

The above event could’ve had a very different outcome if this lover had not known how to read my body and had not taken the time to truly listen. In our society, men are not encouraged to be attentive during sex, and this is reinforced by the viewing of porn where the women are not warmed up but are instead seen being harshly penetrated. There is absolutely nothing wrong with deeply intense and primal sex! Actually, that can bring with it its own level of intimacy and can be extremely pleasurable if done right. The problem, however, is that if your woman’s body isn’t ready, it’s not going to be fulfilling for anyone involved and may even cause physical damage seen and unseen.

When women are penetrated before they are ready, the vagina will protect itself from what is seen by the body as trauma. The vaginal canal will protect itself by numbing out and building a callused barrier on the vaginal walls. The g-spot will shrink and either become painful to stimulation or numbed. The cervix during sex will move to accommodate her man as she becomes aroused, but if the woman’s body is not prepared, it is very easy to plow right into her cervix, which, at this point in the sexing, would have the potential to cause severe pain.

It is important to begin to learn the signs of arousal in a woman and, more precisely, YOUR woman since all women are going to have their own unique signals. Below are some signs that will help in beginning to gauge your woman’s arousal:

Lubrication: Let’s begin with one of the most obvious signs of arousal in women—lubrication. The woman’s body will begin to excrete lubrication when she is ready to be penetrated. If you touch your woman’s pussy and it is dry, then you have a woman that likely is not aroused enough for penetration. There occasionally can be medical issues that create a lack of lubrication, and this is more commonly seen in older women. However, as a general rule, I tell clients that if you need lubricants for vaginal penetration at the beginning of sex, then the women is not aroused enough and more foreplay needs to happen. Lubricants are great for things such as anal sex or if you have been sexing for hours, but even then it is important to pay attention to how naturally lubricated your woman is in the process.

Skin Changes: This can be a fun one to notice in different partners. At times, you can see physical changes in your woman’s skin such as goosebumps that can go over her arms, legs, stomach, and buttock. Another noticeable skin change is flushing in the chest and face. As the woman’s heart rate increases, more blood flow will be present throughout the body, so you may feel more heat radiating from the skin in places such as the breasts, pussy, and upper legs.

Breath: When we are in a deep state of arousal, our breathing will naturally change and become more short and heavy. Now, if your woman has been trained in tantric breathing, then she may have a deeper fuller breath, but you still will be able to notice slight changes in her breathing.

Verbalizations: This one can be complicated since currently we live in a world where so many women are shut down in various ways, and that includes verbalizing during sex. If the throat chakra is blocked, then she is going to have a hard time letting noise escape during sex or directly asking for what she wants. Thankfully, other women are perfectly comfortable allowing their voices to be heard, so again, pay attention to the nuances. When you begin to hear small gasps, moans, grunts— hell, even screams—then you know you are on the right track. Sometimes the verbalizations will become more breathy as she gets into a deeper state of arousal.

Side note: Women, DON’T FAKE IT!!! When you do this, you only confuse your guy even more and create distance in the sexual relationship. If you are not feeling it, have the guts to own that something isn’t working OR that you may not be in a mental state to allow an orgasm. The worst thing you can do is to pretend.

Body Movements: These are great indicators of arousal or when something isn’t working. There is a multitude of different body movements that can be watched, so this aspect is simply about being observant. An example of a positive body movement would be slight tremors in the hands, feet, belly, and chest that indicate orgasmic energy. If you see any bucking of hips, then this can indicate that the woman wants MORE! I know personally I become a wiggly mess during sex when I am truly turned on and allowing.